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Wow, that would be a great manual to get our hands on wouldn’t it? To know exactly what he wants, then we could deliver and we’d all live happily ever after… Okay, well it’s not quite all fairy land here but we can remind ourselves what men really want (based on the countless surveys that have been carried out, together with excerpts from counseling sessions with therapists).
Okay, so what does your man really want in a perfect wife? Here’s a list (though not exhaustive) to serve as a reminder to what the vast majority of men are looking for in their ideal mate. In no particular order:
Appearance – She takes care of herself, just like when you first met. She doesn’t let herself go just because you got married. He’s still proud of his wife long after they’re married because she has enough self esteem to care about how she looks and presents herself well.
Get a Life – Her whole world does ‘not’ revolve around him. Of course he wants to be the most important person in your life but he doesn’t want to be the ‘be all and end all’. He likes it when you have something ‘outside of him’ to focus on. Otherwise, it can be claustrophobic for any man when his wife concentrates on him and nothing else at all. So get yourself a hobby, join a class, take up dancing, just do something – then you’ll have something to talk about in the evenings.
Sex – Yes, I’m always banging on about this one but it bears repeating. Why? Because there are a huge number of women who neglect their husbands in the bedroom department. If you don’t want to have sex with him, what on earth on you still doing there? Really? It’s not fair on him and you’re just passing time. If you don’t want to enjoy making love with your man, then set him free so he can enjoy this natural instinct with someone who does.
Tidiness – A little overlooked thing this but men do not like mess and chaos around the home. He might not say anything for a long while, he might bottle it all up till he just ‘loses’ it but take it from me, most men like a clean and tidy home. Somewhere they feel comfortable and can relax in. Someplace they’re not embarrassed if their mates drop by unexpected. Take heed!
Balanced – He doesn’t want a ‘fruit cake’ of a wife. You probably seemed ‘normal and balanced’ when you first met. Well, that’s what he expects throughout the relationship. Of course, stuff and tragedies do happen and we all have to work our way through these unfortunate times but if you have any kind of neurosis, you should seek help (on your own). Naturally you’ll want his support but it’s totally unfair to drag your man into a problem which is ‘yours’ and not his.
Sensible with Money – He doesn’t want a spendthrift. Most guys are going to be thinking about the future once they’ve found their ideal mate. So they don’t want someone who goes out and has splurges behind his back, on things she doesn’t need, with cash they can’t afford. Even worse when the credit card is abused and he finds out later when you’re thousands of dollars in the red. Not funny and will do your relationship no good at all.
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