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11th hour with Waseem Badami. November 24 201, This is horrible news for Pakistan’s global image. A woman kills her husband cuts him into little pieces and the cooks the pieces in a pot.
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Question by Rebecca: How come some woman can tolerate a husband who is a cross dressing freak?
I have a friend who let her husband dress in drag and it just makes me feel weird that she let her husband do that. I had to divorce my husband about 7 years ago because it disgusted me. He now works at a drag circuit club and my daughter constantly asks how come she doesn’t have a dad. My daughter is 10 years old.

Best answer:

Answer by Laura Portugal WC 2010
Why does it bother you ?

Let them be.

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by marsmet541

I Need Some Successful Strategies to Make My Husband Love Me Again: Here’s Some Strategies That Actually Work

I often write about strengthening your marriage, returning a marriage to an intimate place, and preventing divorce.  Recently, I received an email from a woman who asked me if I would share with her “how to make my husband love me again.”  Well, this is somewhat of a loaded question, but I after chatting with her for a bit, I was able to determine that she really wanted a few different things:She wanted to restore intimacy and closeness in her marriage. She wanted to feel that her husband understood, cherished, and appreciated her. And, she wanted to feel desired, loved, and wanted by her husband again.

She confided that she had not felt these things coming from her husband in a long while and this contributed to distance and arguments. She said she felt that she and her husband were so far apart from one another that she was scared a divorce or separation was on the horizon. So, for her, and for everyone in the same situation, this article will discuss ways to encourage behavior that will contribute to your husband loving you again (although he probably loves you now, but the situation is keeping this from coming out – which I’ll discuss later).

First, I’d like for you to understand that it’s very likely that your husband does still love you. Although “falling out of love” is a phrase that is often used for a stale marriage, often what it really means is that he has “fallen out of love” with the state of the marriage. When a husband pulls away from you, emotionally checks out or detaches himself from the marriage, or gives you vague statements like “I’m just not happy,” “I just don’t feel close to you anymore,” “I just don’t feel like I used to,” etc., he is telling you the truth as he knows it.

But, men are not very good at accurately interpreting and then communing what they are feeling. Often times, what they are REALLY feeling and what they REALLY mean is that the relationship is no longer eliciting positive feeling about themselves – yes, themselves (That’s not a typo).

Think for a minute about when you first met your husband – back to when you were both trying to impress and grow closer to the other.  You both likely out your best foot forward and deeply cared about the experience each person had when you were together.You probably put a great deal of thought and effort into ways to make him feel and understand how much his well being and positive feelings mattered to you (and I’ll bet he did the same (as much as he was capable) for you). I’ll bet you both listened intently when the other talked.  And maybe left notes or gifts for one another. And probably initiated intimate and loving gestures and glances that left no doubt as to how you felt. 

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The results were likely a strong relationship in which both partners felt wanted, desired, understood, attractive, interesting, and competent.  These are the things that make a man feel that he is on top of the world and contribute to his “falling in love.” So, understand that when he says (or you think) your husband doesn’t love you anymore – that’s often not right or inaccurate.  Often, he’s instead mourning the loss of the relationship that made him feel so very good about himself and he doesn’t know how to get that back.

So, knowing this, what can you do now?First, I need to describe how so many women react when they are trying to “make” their husbands love them again. Usually, one of two things are going to happen. In one scenario, the wife will go on the defensive.  In not so many words (and sometimes through her actions) she will be communicating something like: “what’s wrong with you?;” or  ”how could you do this to me?;” or “do you know how this makes me feel?;” or “is this how you treat your children’s mother?”  

In essence, she is trying to strong arm, guilt, or convince her husband that he is wrong and just needs to straighten up and fly right.  And, she could well be right. But, do you know what the husband is thinking and hearing?He’s hearing that his wife does not care enough to listen to what he is really saying. He thinks his wife is really saying his feelings don’t matter or his concerns aren’t valid. And, as a result, he’s going to distance himself (and close himself off from you) that much more.

The other extreme to this behavior is a wife who will try to “prove” to her husband that he should still love her or she will try to overcompensate. She’ll become a “yes” woman – bowing to her husband’s every whim and acting in such a compromising way that she may secretly resent the fact that she thinks she’s doing all of the work and making all of the concessions. She will think that if she “shows” him just how nice she is and how much she loves him, he will come to his senses. But, this tactic is flawed too.  Because your husband will know that you’re playing games and he will not respect your willingness to compromise your own wants, feelings, and needs.  How attractive is someone who is not genuine or true to themselves? Not very.

So what is the best way to approach this? First, you lay it out on the table.  You tell your husband that you are feeling a distance in your marriage and you miss the closeness and intimacy that you both once enjoyed.  Ask him directly if he would be receptive to improving your marriage.  Many men will balk at this because all they are hearing is the word “work.” That’s perfectly OK.  All you’re trying to do here is to communicate to your husband that you personally would like to make some positive changes.

And, you are going to show them, (with your actions) that you’re not really talking about work.  You’re talking about changes that he is probably going to like.The bottom line is this.  Define what you are missing in your relationship. If you want more affection from your husband, show more GENUINE affection to him (no game playing here or putting on a show.)If you want more appreciation, let him know you appreciate him.

Now, you may be reading this and thinking that you are the one who’s going to be making all of the changes and doing all of the work.  But, understand that you’re likely going to be rewarded for your efforts ten fold.Because if you can restore the positive feelings that your relationship once elicited in your husband about himself, he is going to return all of the love you feel you are missing. A wife who can make her husband feel respected, understood, and desirable is probably going to be a wife who gets all of these things back.

At this point, many wives will tell me that they are receptive to these techniques, but they think the marriage is too far gone to try them. I often hear things like “my husband won’t even notice,” or “my husband is just going to look at me funny,” or “my husband won’t even let me near him.” Well, that might be true at first, but you can’t give up.  If you are genuinely and convincingly giving him what you know he ultimately wants, I suspect that in time he will return the favor.

How did I learn this? Through making a lot of mistakes (which almost cost me my marriage) when I was trying to make my own husband fall back in love with me. Eventually, I was able to restore my husband’s love and not only save the marriage, but make it stronger. You can read my very personal story on my blog at http://isavedmymarriage.com

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Question by Alexandra: Does a jealous man use anger towards his woman in order to get and control her attention?
I have just read this and wonder what are other peoples’ thoughts:

The jealous man uses anger towards his partner in order to get and control her attention. Anger also works as a punishment with the result of inflicting emotional pain on the woman. By punishing the woman with anger the woman may change her behavior in order to avoid emotional punishment in the future.

Best answer:

Answer by Melba W
yes

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Elizabeth Hurley – Elizabeth Hurley’s Ex-husband Still Sees Her Son
Elizabeth Hurley’s ex-husband Arun Nayar is glad they have remained friends despite their recent divorce, because he is able to stay in contact with her young son. The couple split last year (10) and their divorce was made official earlier this month (Jun1…
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Question by Sweetface: Seriously, is a woman a Mistress if Married Man is separated and 2yr relationship with OW is not a secret?
Estranged Wife, friends, family, co workers everyone knows of married mans relationship with ow and life goes on as it should. Is women still a mistress although she is not a secret just because man is not divorced?

Best answer:

Answer by Jason B
Yes.

Just like a killer is still a killer even if he haven’t killed in 50 years.

Only after a divorce is she not a mistress.

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by George Arriola

Is My Husband In Love With His Mistress?

It’s interesting that a lot of the women who write to me are more worried about their husband’s emotional feelings about the woman with whom he’s cheating (we’ll call her “the mistress” in this article) than they are about how he feels about her physically.  Many tell me things like “I can deal with him being unfaithful, but I can not deal with him actually loving her.”  I understand this.  Society is often more accepting of men straying because of physical reasons, but most feel that the emotional bond and closeness should be reserved for his wife.

The problem is that often when a man cheats he isn’t at all thinking logically and he’s often searching for something that he had all along. However, often he can often only see this much later, once the dust has settled and once it’s obvious that he was incredibly wrong about countless things. Until that time comes though, he’ll often mistake the excitement, the pay off, and the “newness” for love.  But, he almost always turns out to be wrong and he almost always realizes this eventually.  I’ll talk about this more in the following article.

His Cheating Is Often Not Because He Doesn’t Love You Or Because He Loves The Mistress.  It’s Because He Doesn’t Love Himself: Remember when I said an affair is often searching for something that a man had all along?  Well, that’s often because something in his life happens that significantly affects his self esteem and how he is able to navigate the world.  Some will call this a mid life crises – and it does commonly happen to older men.  But, even young man can have an identity crises, be under stress, or begin to become bored with themselves and their lives.  They are trying to make themselves feel better about their attractiveness, their sexual prowess, and their ability to present themselves in a powerful way. I’m not saying that this isn’t ridiculous, I’m just sharing their thought process with you.

So, often the mistress has very little to do with how he feels about you and even sometimes with how he feels about her.  It’s all about how he feels about himself and what is lacking within him.  Mistresses can often sniff this out from a mile away.  And, she’ll present herself as a diversion that comes with no strings attached.  She’ll want him to think that she’s just all about fun, that she won’t nag him or worry about picking up his dirty underwear.  She doesn’t know or doesn’t care that he clips his disgusting nose and ear hairs.  She hasn’t seem him at his worst.  So, it’s all good – at least for a while.  She’s basically all the fun without any of the work or the commitment.  She makes the time for him without worrying about household chores, children, or aging parents.

In his mind, she gives him the time and attention that you used to before you had to be a responsible adult.  No, this is not at all fair, but it’s the reality as it is. And, knowing it will help you to realize that this must eventually come to an end.  Because no one can keep playing this unrealistic game.  Very few mistresses are never going to want nothing more.  Most are biding their time and waiting to swoop in and make demands eventually.  They’ll painting the pretty picture in the beginning waiting until the time is right to start to gradually make more demands for time and for commitments.  Eventually, she too will begin to be exposed to the flaws and some responsibilities and she’ll begin to lose her appeal. And, she can’t even begin to touch you in terms of history and shared experiences.

But, until this happens, she appears to be the answer to many of his problems.  Men will often tell me that it’s not so much about sex with her as many people think.  It’s because she listens, because she’s fun, because she appreciates him, and because she gives him the time and attention that you’re too distracted to offer.  (Again, I know this isn’t fair, but I’m passing the message along because you deserve to hear it.)

Where Does All Of This Leave You?: Many women will tell me, “I know that what you’re saying is true, but where does that leave me? Am I just suppose to wait around until he gets tired of this woman?”  No, you should not.  It’s absolutely not acceptable that he’s allowed to have both of you.  I believe that you should make very clear to your husband that you will not play second fiddle to anyone and it’s extremely demeaning and insulting to even be asked to.

If you’re even going to entertain saving your marriage, then it must be a marriage of two, not three.  He may well think that he loves this woman and doesn’t want to give her up.  There’s not a lot that you can do about this but bide your time, present yourself as the classy, self respecting person you are, and focus on your own happiness.  Tell him that perhaps you’ll talk when he’s completely banished her from his life, but until then, you must focus on yourself.  When and if he comes to his senses, then and only then will you talk.

The truth is, statistically speaking, they are doomed.  Most mistresses never make it down the aisle with the man she cheated with. And of those that do, they are almost 75% likely to end this with a divorce.  It’s just not a good set up, and eventually he will likely realize this.  And, you’ll be smelling like a rose because you handled this in way that respected yourself.  You checked out until he came to his senses and knew that you would then reevaluate what is right for YOU and your marriage, not for him or for her.

I know that worrying about this silly woman or mistress is extremely painful and difficult, but make sure that you don’t give her more power than she deserves. And, healing is often closer than you may think. It took a lot of work and patience, but today my marriage is actually stronger than it ever was before. I also did a lot of work on myself and am happier as the result. Our bond and intimacy is much stronger and my self esteem is at an all time high. I know longer worry my husband will cheat again. You can read my very personal story on my blog at http://surviving-the-affair.com/

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