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Britney Spears Concert Tour

With her current tour now well under way, the Britney Spears Concert tour has announced performances at numerous venues throughout the US and Canada.

Britney’s career has been amazing. She has sold more than 84 million albums worldwide according to the Zomba Label Group and Sony Music. In the US alone she has sold 35 million albums, certified by RIAA, which makes her the 8th best-selling female recording artist. She is also the 5th top-selling female recording artist of this decade.

Reports from visitors to recent performances indicate that she is back to her best and is wowing them wherever she appears. The Britney Spears Concert Tour rolls on!

For details of Dates, Venues and Tickets go to: Britney Spears Concert

by Rob React

Question by wikipedia: What are your views on cheating in a relationship?
What do you think of cheating in a relationship or a marriage? Do you really think a relationship can survive one of them being unfaithful? To me, if someone is unfaithful in a relationship, it suggests that there’s something wrong with the relationship, and they’re not enough for each other.Do you think everyone deserves a second chance? Or is one chance enough and trust would be an issue after that. Or do you think it just depends on the situation?

Best answer:

Answer by Palmer
if your gonna do something, do it right……

What do you think? Answer below!

Getting closer to your boyfriend depends a lot on how well you communicate. Support, admiration and encouragement play a large part in what couples offer one another and Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend can certainly help with this. Here are some tips to help you get better at communicating with him.

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Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend

If you are not the kind of person who can simply come out with something sweet to say to your boyfriend then it can often be a difficult thing to do or perhaps you are easily embarrassed or shy and know what you might want to say but can’t readily do it? Luckily for you, I am here to help!

If you are easily embarrassed or shy when it comes to thinking of sweet things to say to your boyfriend then think about this… Perhaps he feels just the same way but maybe wants to hear you say those sweet things?

Everyone says “I love you” and it’s a beautiful thing to hear, however there are ways to make it even sweeter and personal by adding compliments so we will have a look at how to do that but before we do, let’s look at compliments…

Compliments

So, we have already said that one of the sweetest things you can say to your boyfriend is “I love you”, however if you spend a little more time thinking about why you love him then it makes it more personal.

For instance, exactly what is it about him physically, mentally and spiritually that you love? What does he do for you that nobody else does? What is it about him that makes you want to spend so much time with him?

Perhaps now you will see the difference between simply saying something sweet to your boyfriend and making that sweet thing actually mean something and count? Giving a compliment actually involves taking a little risk because you have to open yourself up in order to do it and that is what makes it count…

Let me ask you this… Would you rather hear “I love you” or “I just wanted you to know that I love you so much because when I am with you I am reminded of how wonderfully confident you make me feel?”

Notice that one is simply something sweet to say but the other includes something personal that they have done for you and explains that you truly appreciate it? Before we cover exactly how to do it I think we should cover when to do it!

Picking Your Time

Guys are easily embarrassed when it comes to love, flirting and sweet things… it’s no secret! Declaring your undying love to him while he is with his buddies or on the phone to them (or when he’s on the phone to you in front of them) might seem funny but it wont help you in the long run!

Face it, men are fragile little creatures at heart and as well as making him the laughing stock of his buddies it has also been known to cause arguments.

How to do it?

So, you need a starting point right? Grab a pen and paper or open up a word processor and let’s get started…

Take just 60 seconds and write down at least 3 things he has done for you that you consider helpful, sweet, kind etc…

Handy tip!

Make sure that you write them by imagining you are talking to him and starting them “you” instead of “he.”

The next thing to do is simply to look at each one and think about it for a little while (close your eyes if it helps) and make a note of how it made you feel, what it meant to you inside and write it down. Do that for all 3.

Let’s look at an example:

You…

• Fixed my puncture in the dark and the pouring rain on our first date
• Care for my son as though he were your own
• Send me love letters when we are apart

It makes me…

• Feel really cared for
• Appreciate the way you feel for me
• Miss you when we are apart
• Really glad I met you

I appreciate it…

• So much
• More than you’ll ever know
• More than you realise

Putting it all together…

“You know, I loved the way you fixed my puncture in the pouring rain on our first date, it made me feel really cared for and I appreciate it more than you’ll ever know…”

See how easy it is? Of course you can mix and match and come up with dozens, as long as it “feels right” and you are honest with it. Say some sweet things to your boyfriend today and make his day!

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At some point in every relationship, a single woman always starts wondering if her boyfriend will commit to marrying her. It can be difficult to gauge what is going on in your boyfriend’s mind and most men aren’t going to come right out and tell you. Men tend to internalize everything and they will go over a situation repeatedly in their minds long before they get around to saying anything to the women in their lives.

Even so, you can judge by your boyfriend’s actions whether he is ready to commit because a man’s actions really do speak louder than words.

Pay close attention to how he says things. A man who isn’t interested in commitment will talk in terms of himself. He’ll say things with “me” or “I.” When he’s talking about next week, month, or even five years in the future, he’ll still use “I” and “me.”

A man who is seriously considering popping the question will speak about the future in terms of “us” and “we.” He will also talk more about the future and when he says things in terms of the two of you, you can be sure he’s picturing a future together with you.

Many men want a stable career and a good place to live before they think about getting married and starting a family of their own. If your boyfriend starts talking about getting more education in order to move up in his company, he might be thinking about how he’ll end up needing more money. He is likely considering a bigger commitment to you.

He also is probably considering commitment if he starts talking about needing to find a bigger apartment or suddenly wants to find a nice house. If he asks what you think about a new place you should be pleased, because he’s thinking about you living there with him and he wants it to be suitable for you too.

Even though men are expected to take the initiative in personal relationships, many are at a loss as to How To Make Her Fall in Love With YOU. That is, beyond the ‘ice-breaking’, getting-to-know-you’ of the early stages of a relationship, how should you proceed from there? Here are some helpful tips.
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Make Her Fall in Love With YOU- 5 Time Tested Ways to Make HER Attracted to YOU

It’s long been a desire for most guys to make a woman fall in love. It’s also been known for a long time that most guys fail to make a woman fall in love with them. This combination does not really work out all that well when your goal is to attract women and be successful in relationships. It can easily make you wonder whether or not you will ever be able to accomplish this. Ease up and relax yourself for a minute. There are some classic and time tested ways to make a woman fall in love with you that you can learn and put into practice.

Without going on for too long, here they are:

1. Be spontaneous.

Women commonly complain that the men that they meet are too “vanilla,” too ordinary and do nothing to get things going for them. The problem is that we as men love routines and we become used to things being a certain way and we don’t want them to change. You have to get a little bit more spontaneous if you want to make a woman fall in love with you. Going to the same restaurant every weekend may appeal to you, but just to spice things up, try something different once in a while. This does not just apply to going out to eat. It applies to many other things as well.

2. Get to know little things about her.

She already knows that you an notice how her body looks and what color her hair is. You want to impress a woman by being to point out the little things about her. The things that not every guy picks up on. This will make her think of you as having a much closer connection to her and she will appreciate this. With most guys, they fail to do this. And they of course, fail to create attraction with a woman.

3. Flirt with her.

Your flirting with a woman should NEVER stop. When yo spot a couple that seems to have that connection that eludes most people, you can easily see that they keep flirting with each other. This works to keep things fresh and make you always seem like the guy that gives her those little butterflies in her stomach. When you are the guy that does this, not only will she fall in love with you, she will STAY in love with you. And that’s better than anything else.

4. Remain confident around a woman.

Women are always dropping little “tests” on a man. When they do this, they are looking to see how you will respond. If you are the kind of man that quivers when she tests you, then slowly she is going to stop seeing you as an alpha male, who is confident in himself. Self confidence is a huge attractor in both men and women and you cannot lose this.

5. Find out what she wants in a man and give it to her.

This may sound really simple, but do you know how many guys have no clue what a woman wants? Of course, if you are unaware of what will create attraction with her, the chances of her falling love with you are not that good. You have to be able to tap into what she really desires from a relationship and be the man that gives it to her. Otherwise, there are many other guys that WILL line up. This does not mean that you should ever become her little puppy dog on a string. Rather, you should know what causes her attraction and make it happen.

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How to Treat Your Husband Like a Man

Are you treating your husband like a man or like a little boy? The best way to treat your man like a man is by respecting who he is and his God-given position in the marriage. If you treat him as if he were one of the kids he will feel disrespected. No man wants to be married to his mother, but that’s what it feels like when a wife constantly nags, complains, or demands things of her husband for one reason or another.

You see I used to do this with my husband. I was a needy, demanding, bossy, and controlling wife. I expected things from my husband because I was not happy with myself. Unhappy wives and husbands become needy and spongy with each other when they feel they are in lack of something or when they fear something. Only Our Creator can fill the lack within us. We must ask Him into our lives and allow Him to lead us.

A big part of the problem is that some men give their wives good reason to treat them like little boys. If you don’t assert your position as that of ‘being the man of the home” your wife will automatically take up your position in the marriage as if it is her position. A man likes to be the king in his home, but if the wife is already acting as if she is the king where does that leave the husband? The queen? I hope not.

…For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the savior. Ephesians 5:22-23

Why do some husbands have affairs? Is the grass really greener on the other side of the fence? A real man doesn’t want to be scolded like a child. He doesn’t want to be rejected and he doesn’t want to be bossed around and told what to do. He wants to be treated like a man. If a husband is not being respected at home the chances of him having an affair, emotional or physical are more prevalent. I’m not condoning affairs because they are wrong? How a wife treats her husband doesn’t justify a husband having an affair.

Did you know that God created the man with the spiritual and physical ability to protect his family? It’s instinctive for the man to be a protector, overseer, and captain”. But if wives aren’t allowing their husbands to take care of them, because they think that they can take care of themselves then essentially you are disrespecting him and his position as the man of the marriage. Spiritually speaking, husbands have been given the authority by God to lead the home with loving influence and guidance.

Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord. Ephesians 5:22

If you are having a difficult time submitting to your husband, it is because you have not submitted your life to God. Before a woman can actually understand the logistics of submission she must submit her own life to the Lord. Understand that God did not make the man better than the woman in any way, only different. Let’s take a look.

For example, if you were being robbed, who would grab the gun and protect the family, you or your husband? Would it seem odd to you if your husband said for you to get the gun while he hides in the closet? It would. In fact your husband would probably tell you to go in the room with the children and protect (nurture) them, while he confronts the robber. It is totally instinctive for the man to grab the gun, while the women waits in the shadows with her kids. No man in his right mind is going to make his wife protect him.

This is just one way in which God created the sexes different. So, my point is, why in an emergency is it okay for the man to be a man, but when it is during regular home life, with no emergency, the wife bosses and controls her husband around like he is a child? Where is the respect in that?

Let’s take a look at another scenario. A wife leaves her children, husband, and duties of the home everyday to work under another man, her employer. Pretty soon co-workers begin making flirtatious advances at her. Every day men at her work are making her feel good about herself. Her husband is not making her feel good about herself, in fact the marriage is strained from her being tired and overworked. If this woman is vulnerable or not really committed to her marriage what do you think is going to happen? That’s right, she’s going to have an affair.

I have to ask this. Why is she not home under her husband’s guidance and protection? How can a man protect his wife when she is leading her own life outside the bounds of the marriage? Wives working out of the home, whether they work for women or men is a major reason for marital breakups, especially when husband and wife have no moral standards or codes established for the marriage. Neither one of them is taking their God given positions in the marriage seriously.

The feminist movement and the ways of society has created some confused women to treat their husbands with disrespect-its an attitude that is fostered through encouraging women to be all that they can be, without the aid of a man. And that’s fine, but if she is married is it still fine? How can you treat your husband like the man of the home when you are already behaving as if you are the man?

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace. Ephesians 4:2-3

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The perfect mistress has long been a study of curiosity, speculation, resentment and even admiration. She has existed for centuries and probably since the dawn of early mankind. Attributes of the mistress are described in poems, songs, novels and even opera. Some of the most famous creative works, have been based on the role of the mistress. In regal circles, she has been known as a courtesan and many kings, princes and other nobles are known to have entertained them. This article looks at relationships from the mistress’s perspective.

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The Perfect Mistress

By Ruth Purple

Mistress – just the word itself imbibes negative impressions. Wives despise them and society looks down on them. Mistresses are associated with the word home wrecker with low morals. But if you really think about it, do they like being a mistress? Is that a choice they voluntarily choose or is it a written destiny? If there is such a thing as being “single-blessedness”- meaning people who are “blessed” or born to be single, is there such thing as “mistress-blessedness”? What kind of woman would chose to be a mistress in the first place? Being a mistress is never easy, so they say.

You cannot demand and you are constantly settling for stolen moments and attention. But since you are the other woman and everybody hates you, you might as well excel in what you do. And you’d better be good in keeping yourself anonymous or you will be forever obtaining the mark of the Scarlet Letter. A perfect mistress is a lady who is an expert in handling her man and knows how to keep him and the relationship hidden – if you can’t do both, then you are just a bimbo who likes to “do” somebody else’s husband. What does it takes to be the perfect other woman, you ask.

The number one rule of being the perfect other woman is – know where you stand. This is the rule of the universe to have order-knowing your place- everything should be in its proper place and order-like the sun and the moon, the land and the sea.

This means the other woman should never show affection in public to avoid scandal- scandal is worst than murder. Jesus was a victim of scandal, see what happened to him. So, if you don’t want to be crucified- save your urges inside the bedroom. The difference between a mistress and a wife is- a mistress never believes every word his lover is saying; another decree in being the perfect other woman- never believe what your man is saying to you.

In general, men are liars. They are driven to say whatever it takes to get what they want. “You understand me more that’s why I love you more than my wife.”- Never let this enter your head. This is usually a defense mechanism of a philandering man to justify his guilt for having a you.

Enjoy every moment when he is showering you with sweet nothings but be on top of it. A mistress should have an ally- and there’s no better perfect ally than his lover’s assistant or secretary. You should know how to have a rapport with his lover’s secretary- for two main reasons- to keep tract of his lover and to cover-up for them.

The other woman always remembers that curiosity kills - especially if you are curious about the wife. It’s tempting to see the person your lover chose to sleep at night even if he “doesn’t lover her”. Curiosity can become very insatiable and before you know it, you are face to face with the wife with a gun pointing in your head.

There are so many orders that a perfect adulteress should do but I will leave you with this one- discreetness. Mistresses should be synonymous with being discreet. A perfect adulteress should never brag or talk about being a mistress, she should never bad mouth or get jealous with the wife, the other woman should never ask for money, she should not travel with her lover- meet him somewhere else instead and most importantly she should never complain.

Mistresses, yes we don’t like the idea of them but they are also people whose only fault is being in love with the right person in the wrong time.

The author of this article Ruth Purple is a Relationship Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Ruth recently decided to go public and share her knowledge and experience through her website http://www.relazine.com. You can sign up for her free newsletter and join her coaching program.

It’s a very common concern for women of all ages: How To Talk To Men With Confidence. This article pays special attention to younger men but the principles are just as applicable to those who are more mature. The points raised have special relevance to those who are dating but can also benefit those who are in ongoing relationships.
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How To Talk To Men and Boys With Confidence

When it comes to relating to the opposite sex, not everyone is born with confidence or conversational adeptness. Fortunately, with practice and the following tried and tested tricks anyone can develop these skills.

Work out what you want

Have in mind the goal of your conversation before it starts. Do you want to let him know that you’re interested in him? Do you just want to catch up and have a laugh? Identify the goal and set a strategy for how you’ll achieve it.

One good way to break the ice with a guy (if you’re confident enough) is to be totally honest with him and tell him what your agenda is. For example, if you’re talking to a guy who you have a crush on and you really want to discover whether he’s single, you could say something like, “When I walked over here, I promised myself I wouldn’t leave until I found out if you had a girlfriend or not!”

Or if you’re on a date with a guy you’ve just started seeing and your goal is to be less shy, say something along the lines of, “I was thinking that I’ve been pretty quiet on our other dates. Today I decided I want to let you know what I’m like.” Setting a strategy helps to keep a potentially unnerving situation in perspective.

Be your fabulous self

Be the individual you are, not a clone of him. There is nothing more annoying for a boy than when a girl goes along with everything he says. Don’t be afraid to express likes and dislikes or to share opinions. For example, if a boy asks what you’d like to eat or what movie you’d like to see, do not automatically respond, “I don’t mind” or “Whatever you want”.

And give him an honest response. If you really don’t have any preference then it is okay to say so. Your tastes and views do not have to be the same as the guy you’re talking to. You don’t have to listen to the same music, or support the same football team, or agree with his political or religious beliefs.

It is okay to disagree with his opinions as long as you are respectful. Standing up for what you belief in commands respect and it also gives him the chance to get to know the real you and what you are passionate about.

Take risks

No one, no matter how pretty, intelligent or funny, gets the response they want from others ALL of the time. Most of us have some experience of rejection, but that is what helps us hone our tuning skills! Take comfort from this and don’t be disheartened if a boy you like doesn’t reciprocate your interest.

The saying “One person’s trash is another person’s treasure” rings true here. Another saying, “You’ve got to be in it to win it”, is also true. You don’t want to be left wondering what might have happened if you’d had the courage to go and talk to him, so take a chance and put yourself on the line!

Getting what you want

Once you’ve got your boy’s attention there are a few tried and tested tricks for keeping it. The most important thing is to show a genuine interest in him. Smile at him, maintain eye contact, maybe touch his arm to emphasize a point. People love talking about themselves so try asking him questions. Keep it simple, like, what music do you listen to? What’s it like living at your place? How do you get on with your family? What’s the best holiday you’ve ever been on? What do you like to do on weekends?

If you are feeling self-conscious, an added benefit of getting a boy to talk about himself is that it takes the spotlight off you. Once he starts confiding you’ll feel more relaxed and be able to talk about yourself too.

Watch and learn

Observe others and then develop your own style. Pay attention to the girls who are more confident and flirty. Watch these girls in action and take note of exactly what they say, do, and even what mannerisms they use. Not everyone is born with conversational adeptness but anyone can develop it. Mix what works with your own style.

Positive Visualization

Before you approach a boy give yourself a pep talk. The thoughts we have influence our mood and our behavior so concentrate on happy vibes. Dismiss any negative thoughts and substitute them with positive thoughts. If you anticipate that someone is going to laugh in your face or find what you are saying boring, you are likely to feel sad, anxious and defeated. If you remember all the compliments you have been given or a time when you had a friend in stitches laughing, you are likely to feel happy, calm and confident. Visualize success and it is more likely to occur.

Ideas that are bound to make a difference – Enjoy More Love: 101 Romantic Gestures is a list of many small steps you can take to show your partner how much they mean to you. It’s tempting to take the other for granted and assume they know you care. Here are some easy, positive ways you can touch up your love life and make them glow with appreciation!

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101 Romantic Gestures

These romantic gestures are quick and easy ways to show your love. Often times the most romantic gestures are the small acts we choose to do every day. This extensive list of 101 romantic gestures will help you be more creative in how you show your love.

1. Massage her feet
2. Clean her car
3. Stick a post-it love note in the kitchen
4. Snuggle
5. Make a romantic mix CD
6. Dance under the stars (with your mix CD playing from the car)
7. Hide love notes in her house and car (make sure she’ll find them fairly soon)
8. Have an undisturbed conversation (turn off phones, tv, computer etc.)
9. Light every candle you have to set a seductive, intimate mood
10. Pick up a pie or cake for dessert
11. Do the laundry
12. Write a message on the mirror with a bar of soap
13. Make a calender with photos of both of you together
14. Unwind with a glass of wine
15. Pick her up and carry her to the bed or couch
16. Complete her Honey-Do list
17. Download a new ring to her cell phone for your calls
18. Share things about your day (work, family, clients, events)
19. Restock the cabinets with her favorite food or drink (don’t forget to leave a note with it)
20. Hold hands
21. Change her oil
22. Give a sincere compliment
23. Go on a walk together
24. Run your fingers through her hair and give her a head rub
25. Go for a joy ride on a scenic road
26. Fold clothes during a game or on your tv show commercials
27. Change her computer screen saver to a love message
28. Cook a meal together
29. Do a slow dance after dinner
30. Kiss when you leave
31. Help her with a project
32. Thank her for a meal she cooked
33. Go grocery shopping together
34. Have a sunrise coffee date (even if it’s just from your deck or window)
35. Hold each other during a big storm
36. Put the toilet seat down (let her know you did it for her)
37. Slip a love note in her purse or work tote
38. Spend 30 mins power cleaning together and 30 mins passionately lovin
39. Waltz around the room during a commercial break
40. Kiss when you arrive
41. Make dinner for her
42. Say “I love you because ______”
43. Find out one of her fantasies and make it happen
44. Pay her a compliment in front of people you know
45. Make a “10 favorite memories together” list
46. Do yard work (shovel snow, rake leaves, mow, prune, plant)
47. Send a love ransom note with cut out letters
48. Spend time learning/doing her hobby with her
49. Stop at a scenic outlook enjoy the view and each other
50. Get a sensual game to play together
51. Take the garbage out
52. Put a love note with her lunch
53. Go on a bike ride or roller blade together
54. Bring her breakfast or coffee in bed
55. Open doors for her
56. Fix something
57. Leave some Hershey kisses on the pillow
58. Play if/then. If you ______, then I’ll ______
59. Tell her you are proud of her
60. Dance to a classic 80′s song
61. Carry her bags/boxes/books
62. Send a thinking of you email
63. Bake a cake and decorate it with a creative message
64. Act out her favorite love scene from a movie
65. Make a “10 things I love about you” list
66. Help with or do the dishes
67. Write a love note on her calender or in her planner
68. Collect a wild flower bouquet for her
69. Tell her you like her style
70. Kiss each of her finger tips
71. Send a romantic greeting [http://www.romanticgreetings.com]
72. Give a midday call
73. Serenade her with a cheesy love song (in the privacy of your home)
74. Have a quickie somewhere new
75. Whisper sweet nothings in her ear
76. Take some scandalous photos together or of each other
77. Write a love message on the beach or in fresh snow
78. Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier and snuggle in the morning
79. Take a minute to enjoy the sunset together
80. Take a romantic bath
81. Pull out her chair before sitting
82. Give her a big, long hug
83. Make a favorite things about you list
84. Plant a tree or flowers together
85. Let her know that she is the perfect match for you
86. Vacuum, dust or clean the toilet
87. Leave a goofy love message on her phone
88. Experiment with chocolate body paints
89. Make an “I love the ways you love me” list
90. Rub each other down in the shower
91. Be her slave for a day
92. Make a cheesy love poem
93. Make a meal together
94. Pack something special with her lunch (kisses, a note, her favorite snack)
95. Have a breakfast date discuss your plans for the day
96. Take care of car maintenance (oil, tire rotation, check fluids)
97. Express appreciation for specific things she does for you
98. Massage her neck and shoulders
99. Make her a gift
100. Play footsie
101. Offer to help with anything

You may be really good at doing some of these romantic gestures. Use this list to pick up a few more romantic gestures and apply them to your relationship. Put your own twist on some of the ideas for a personal and unique romantic gesture!

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s kids are getting used to the high life as they accompanied mom on a private jet to Cancun, Mexico for the launch of her new film, Salt.

It wasn’t all work, though, as the kids managed to also fit in the resort’s water parks.

Details and pics: Angelina Jolie