What happens to a relationship when one person wants an abortion and the other refuses?
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If one person (say the boyfriend) thinks that having a child at this point is not prudent and suggests an abortion. The boyfriend offers to pay for the abortion and lists clearly why this is the best choice. The other person (the girlfriend) refuses to have an abortion on religious grounds (despite not having religious beliefs regarding pre-marital sex). The boyfriend would never pressure or force the girlfriend to have an abortion against her will so what happens next.
Outside of this single disagreement the relationship is the best either person has been a part of. Does the boyfriend have to end it over this dispute. The relationship is a long term one and he does love the girl (despite her stubbornness on this topic). Can he stay with her even after his girlfriend refuses his request?
The boyfriend is only in his early 20s. That is far too young to get a vasectomy and he wants children in the future. The current situation is not ideal for bringing offspring into the world so he wants to wait. He doesn’t hate children or anything of the sort. It isn’t easy for him to suggest it but it would be for the best. They both made mistakes regarding contraception (though it is more of the girlfriend’s fault in the boyfriend’s opinion because she was on the pill and asked him to stop using condoms).
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Answer by Socrates I’M BACK AGAIN MOFOs
No one HAS TO do anything.
But chances are hat this relationship will not last, as the first sign of trouble that crops up around the kid will be blamed on the mother and the child will most likely be resented by the father.
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