How to (cheat) cook Japanese okonomiyaki お好み焼き

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So I made okonomiyaki which is much easier and different from normal one. It’s like cheating. In my cooking video, I always try not to use ingredients that is probably hard to find in the US such as Dashi water, Beni shouga, Katsuobuchi, Aonori, Sakura ebi, Yama imo and so on…so you can try. Therefore it’s a little rough but still it comes out OK. It means you can make it even if you are out of Japan!! Please try to make it yourself if you have time :) If you want to make it like really good okonomiyaki, go to cookingwithdog’s channel. They have awesome video for you all!! Damn they are so funny and good video!! cookingwithdog www.youtube.com www.youtube.com Ingredients I used: 1. Flour 2. Baking powder 3. Cabbage 4. Onion 5. Egg 6. Bacon 7. Potato chips 8. Okonomiyaki sauce (Sweet BBQ sauce would work good instead of okonomiyaki sauce.) 9. Mayonnaise 10. My imagination All music by Daichen www.youtube.com Also check out this website!! They have contest and if you upload a video, you may be able to win the prize!! Upload your cooking video on the website as much as you can. They’ve got a new contest on Showupyourself.com. The Post the Most contest. It’s actually pretty simple and an easy way to win a great prize. All you have to do is post the most videos during the contest period! It’s that easy. Just post your videos, and at the end of the contest, the user who has uploaded the most videos will win a prize. They recently introduced a Youtube embed feature so uploading
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When Your Husband Doesn’t Want to Have Sex – 5 Amazing Solutions

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When your husband doesn’t want to have sex it can be puzzling and disturbing. Insecurity and a rampant imagination can add greatly to the difficulties. Here is an article to consider which shines a light on the issues. After you’ve read it, don’t forget to provide your thoughts so everyone can know your comments:

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Your Husband Doesn’t Want to Have Sex? 5 Amazing Answers and Solutions

By Dr. Randy Carney

So you find your husband doesn’t want to have sex? That indeed is amazing to you because when you were first married, all you had to do was “show up,” and he was ready. The last thing you thought would happen to the two of you would be that you would have marriage intimacy problems.

This state of your marriage is also amazing to you because you read books saying that for many husbands, his number one or number two need is physical intimacy. When your husband doesn’t want sex, many questions can form in your mind.

This may start to cause insecurity on your part. Does he not love you anymore? Does he not find you attractive? While sometimes this may be the case, surprisingly, many times there are other factors..While this may not represent some of the biggest marriage problems, it can certainly be one of the top marriage problems when it reaches extremes.

Some who help others work through marriage problems have discovered a secret.

Here is the secret:

When a husband does not want to have sex, yes, the wife should check up on the two areas in insecurity just mentioned, but actually there are five answers to the question. Each of these five answers do NOt mean that he does not love you anymore. Neither do they mean that he no longer finds you attractive;

Here are the surprising five answers and some solutions:

1. He may be experiencing some physical problems, and he is embarrassed to talk to you about it. some of these types of problems can be very damaging to his ego. Since he wants you to look up to him, he finds it difficult to talk about this kind of failure. Solution: work on keeping lines of communication open. Be understanding. Help him feel comfortable enough to talk to you. These types of problems can be helped by consulting a medical professional.

2. He may have something bothering him outside of the marriage. There may be countless pressures from his job. He may be experiencing stress. He may be worried about financial struggles. It may even surprise him that this type of stress affects the physical area of marriage. Solution: Give support. Find ways to help him relax. Reassure him of your respect.

3. He may need to connect on a deeper emotional level. You both may find this surprising, since many tend to connect the emotional level more to the wife. On the other hand, the husband wants real love and respect. If he feels you are just tolerating him, he can experience a whole range of emotions that even he may not be able to understand. Solution: Go beyond the superficial. When he wants to connect on deeper levels. Be there, ready to talk and to listen.

4. He has a deep need for your admiration and respect. If he does not feel that he has that, he may feel beaten down–less of a man. If unchecked, this can lead to a surprising failure for him in the sexual area. Solution: be truly grateful for his good points. Avoid nagging. Avoid cutting him down. Be especially careful of what your say about him in public. Truly show your respect and admiration wherever you can.

5. He may need to have a key ingredient restored. That ingredient is passion–passion like your earlier days. The problem is that every marriage goes through a type of progression. The passion actually will take different forms. However, do what you can to bring variety into your experience. Encourage him anytime he does something right that excites you. When a little passion surfaces, add fuel to the fire.

These five amazing answers and solutions to the situations where your husband doesn’t want to have sex can be very helpful. However, they do not form the whole answer. Get all the information you can about ways to restore and enrich your marriage.

Actually, besides these five solutions, there are six keys to marital bliss. Marriage Intimacy and Six Keys to Marital Bliss. Find Out What You Need to Know About Marriage Intimacy and How it Contibutes to Marital Bliss. http://www.DrRandyCarney.Webs.Com/GreatphysicalIntimacy.htm Dr. Randy Carney is the author of The LOVING Way to a Successful Marriage: Six Keys to Mariatal Bliss. Copyright by Randy Carney.

Mature Dating – The Facts of Mature Dating Relationships

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Well, so you are at a crossroad again, wondering if the concept of dating really works or was just a figment of someone’s imagination. You have seen mature dating relationships all around you, but don’t know to believe if they really are what they seem or if you’re just hallucinating. Luckily for you, you are not the only one who doubts the concept of mature dating relationships; there are many like you searching for answers and continuing to search for their soul mates.

Well, first let’s clarify certain facts. Mature dating relationships do exist and not made up in someone’s head. In fact, there are quite a lot of people who have built successful mature dating relationships and continue to enjoy the benefits that it has to offer. So, now that it is clear that there is such a concept, you should be more than willing to go and try it out.

So, now you should be wondering how to find this so called mature dating relationship for yourself. The trick is to look in the right places. Getting drunk in a singles bar and waking up the next day at a stranger’s house is probably not the best way to get into a mature dating relationship. There have been cases of this happening, but very few of them actually pan out into something worthwhile. Unfortunately, it is not how it may be shown on the big screen.

The next best thing to do is to get into the dating circuit and find a date. Of course, finding a date is not really a complicated concept and there are a number of ways to go about doing it. You need to start with the right foot forward if you are going to build a mature dating relationship. This would involve being patient and being realistic on dates and not resorting to desperate tactics in the hope of building a mature dating relationship.

Keep in mind that mature dating relationships take time to build. Don’t pressurize the relationships that you are in with the hope of ultimately ending up in a mature dating relationship. With time and some faith, you will eventually find what you are looking for. In fact, some people have had over ten failed relationships and continue to find the person they would consider “the one”. Think of this the next time you are down and questioning the entire concept of dating.

So many people have played the dating game for most of their life and are left hurt, bruised and looking for something more. They don’t want the cheap thrills or the shallow relationships; they want depth, commitment and real love. If you are among those who are just beginning to realize that dating can be satisfying and rooted in mature love, then take the bold step and connect with a local matchmaker today. A matchmaker can find you true love that will be focused on depth and meaning, not shallow and cheap dating. If you want to join thousands of others into mature dating, join up with a matchmaker and see how quickly your life can change.

John is an experienced writer on seeking dating and relationships. He has been writing for many years and has had many articles published. Some of John’s most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature dating, relationships, and matchmaking. Mature Dating

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