Jul 23
Question by jenni j: How often does a husband leave his wife for his Mistress?
I am married, and I have never been a mistress, but I’m just curious does the mistress ever get the man?
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Answer by Bubu
Yes. You be carefull.
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31 Responses to “How often does a husband leave his wife for his Mistress?”
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:11 am
About one in a thousand, I guess.
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:14 am
Yes
July 23rd, 2010 at 2:01 am
I would have to say that yes sometimes the mistress gets the man. But what is the relationship based on. There could never be trust and if there is 100% trust the mistress is a naive fool who thinks that it’s really all about her. when it’s not it is about a man who thinks he can have it all, and in order to get the rush he will do it again.
July 23rd, 2010 at 2:43 am
Not very often at all.
July 23rd, 2010 at 3:38 am
It does happen. The (married) man I was seeing just recently divorced his wife and is now constantly calling and texting me to move out there (lives in a different state) and get married.
July 23rd, 2010 at 4:17 am
She does sometimes….but remember, if he cheated on his wife he will cheat on you.
July 23rd, 2010 at 4:50 am
A simple answer: sometimes.
But understand, she got a man with a track record of cheating. She was the other woman that she has to now look out for. She too has a track record of dating married men, can she be trusted.
It’s a lot easier not to complicate your life. Stop one relationship before you move into another.
July 23rd, 2010 at 5:48 am
Depends…on how deeply in love the guys is with his wife or the mistress.
July 23rd, 2010 at 6:03 am
NOT VERY OFTEN.
MOST OF THE TIME THE MISTRESS GETS SHOT.
ITS A DANGEROUS GAME FOR JUST A FEW MINUTES OF PLEASURE.
July 23rd, 2010 at 6:16 am
Yes, she does in about 50% of the cases. But, she then becomes the wife and this kind of man will cheat on her, too, and she’ll lose him to the next bimbo.
July 23rd, 2010 at 6:38 am
Not often just an xmistress as he moves on to the next one.
July 23rd, 2010 at 6:42 am
I have never had a mistress. I wonder what’s like to have one for a piece of fine ssa. Would I have her for sex or for a serious relationship down the road. That will be the day.
July 23rd, 2010 at 6:51 am
yes.if the mistress can give him what the wife cant,definitely.i love having sex but with someone who also enjoys it.people don’t realize that sex is about making your partner feel good not just worrying about your on needs
July 23rd, 2010 at 7:10 am
I’d say it’s about 1 in 4, just judging from the people I’ve known who’ve had a mistress.
Or, the husband might divorce the wife, then later dump the mistress and find an untainted third party.
July 23rd, 2010 at 7:34 am
Almost all ways. The mistress is usually whats on the other side of the fence that the married husband “Thinks” is greener. Because it’s younger, good looking, adventurous, has no rules or morals and does what ever when ever (Freedom). And usually men looking for sex falls into or looks for that everytime. Thats why most marriages usually ends because one of the spouses cheated. The oldest trick of the enemy
July 23rd, 2010 at 7:39 am
I wouldnt exactly know how often but it happened to my Aunty.
She was the mistress, and the man ended up leaving his wife and marrying her. Then when she was pregnant she found out he was cheating on her, then he left her too.
July 23rd, 2010 at 8:13 am
Yes, the mistress does quite often get the husband. Although that rarely works out, because he will also cheat on her. Usually if the mistress is very young, then NO they do not leave the wife because it is only about sex.
July 23rd, 2010 at 8:35 am
In most cases. But no matter what, if a man have a mistress the wife is sol or would be stupid to put up with sharing a man.
A better question would have been “who ends up with a std or worse”?
July 23rd, 2010 at 8:56 am
No she doesn’t, I used to be a mistress well technically they weren’t married but where together for 9 yrs so it was like they were w/o the rings. Anyway I didn’t get him but then again i didn’t want him, he did it to her wants to say he wouldn’t do it to me.
July 23rd, 2010 at 8:59 am
I would guess the mistress gets the husband about 5% of the time.
July 23rd, 2010 at 9:56 am
That depends on how stupid the man is.
July 23rd, 2010 at 10:03 am
i wouldnt know to be honest but i know of one chick who was the mistress and she ended up getting the married man only because she had 2 children with him during their affair and the wife kicked him to the kerb i would say 20 percent out of 100 the mistress gets the married man
July 23rd, 2010 at 10:46 am
My ex-husband left me for his mistress, got engaged to her, got her pregnant, then I managed to be able to get my divorce, then they had their child and got married — All within 18 months.
So yeah, the mistress sometimes get the man. But… all they are gaining is a cheater… LOL…
July 23rd, 2010 at 11:35 am
Why would she want the loser in the first place. Most mistresses only like married men for the price that they pay, she most likely has several men that take care of her needs.
July 23rd, 2010 at 12:28 pm
Usually only once. That’s all most wives would take.
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:13 pm
once in a while, but then he cheats on her too.
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:28 pm
usually the husbands who left their wives for the mistresses are those whose wives have terrible mouths, nagger, shopping queens, disrespectful, self centered….
& usually the husbands who cannot leave their wives for their mistresses are those husbands who are only looking for a fresh sexual activity.
July 23rd, 2010 at 2:11 pm
yes sometimes then he leaves her when he gets tired of her and a new piece of ass comes along
July 23rd, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Yes… and A LOT more than people will try to convince you. My husband whom I’ve been with for 4 years left me for some little thing he knew for only 3 weeks… so be careful and keep an eye out…
July 23rd, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Shouldn’t ever happen.
If spouse has time for a mistress he should be at home with his wife making the marriage work.
December 7th, 2010 at 9:21 am
Well I’m going to say that I was probably an absolute fool for falling in love with a man that was married, but I can say if you don’t feed a hungry dog then the dog will hunt….. Just FYI woman who end up falling for a married man don’t actually know the whole story before it all happens. We’re sometimes betrayed through this process as well…. So anyone who is jaded it’s not only you, it sucks for everyone…. a cheater is a big problem for everyone. Thanks!